There’s a reason why James Bond has managed to stay so relevant and still seem appealing to men everywhere for over fifty years. Regardless of who plays him or what decade the movie takes place, the idea of James Bond is not just a person but a lifestyle.
Each unique film reminds us how James Bond shaped the model for ideal alpha male who can think or act his way out of anything that stops him from completing his mission.
All men want to be just like James Bond. He’s smart, charming, calm and confident. He uses all of his physical and mental gifts to not only triumph over any obstacle that comes his way but to also sleep with the most beautiful woman he comes into contact with.
The fictional character was even rated the number one influential man by Askmen readers who voted among 50 different men. The only fictional character on the list, Bond still managed to land the number 1 slot in the eyes of 500,000 voters.
Bond has set the bar for the type of personality every man desires. The men that strive for success, want to be in charge and will never let any form of intimidation stop them from earning respect and sleeping with the most women have all been influenced by the character of James Bond.
The icing on the cake is how he ends his relationships as soon as the credits start to roll. If you want to be like James Bond, here are a few changes you can make in your life to bring out the secret agent waiting to get out and make a name for himself.
Don’t Ever Go Down Without A Fight
Quitting is not in James Bond’s vocabulary and he remains persistent until he’s dead. He never thinks he is beaten, even when he is literally about to be executed or has been put at a significant disadvantage against a powerful enemy. If he believes right should win against wrong, he will give every last bit of effort to stand up for what he thinks is worth fighting for.
Take it from the man himself and stand up for what you believe in. Fight for that goal you have always dreamed of and defend your point of view at any time. You won’t always get your way but people will respect you when you stick to your guns. James has never allowed anyone to get the best of him. You need to do the same.
People Are Not Always Who They Seem
James Bond has met some of the most unlikely enemies and friends throughout his career. He has worked with a lot of people who have remained loyal to him until the end in addition to some who only posed as allies just to get close enough to harm him.
Bond has learned to not only train his first impression more acutely so he can tell if someone is being 100% truthful to him at all times but to also rely on his gut instincts when it comes to a strange vibe he gets from a new acquaintance. If your gut instincts and past experiences tell you someone cannot be trusted, you should heed this warning and listen to what your mind and body are telling you.
When Life Hands You Lemons, Use Them as a Stepping Stone
James Bond is not someone who just sits there and whines about a problem. The man is solution driven and is looking to solve things rather than just dwell on how difficult they are. He turns problems into solutions and looks at each bump in the road as a new adventure or opportunity for success.
Life is full of tests that will question your will and knowledge. Passing them is the greatest feeling on earth and you become a stronger person each time. Laugh in the face of danger. It’s there to help you in the long run.
Look Impeccable, Even in the Midst of Chaos
In Goldeneye, Bond drives a tank through the streets of St. Petersburg chasing evil Russian General Arkady Grigorovich Ourumov and gets rear-ended by a few Russian police cars. Bond looks back and pauses for a moment—to straighten his tie. No matter how intense the situation is, the man is dressed to perfection. Looking good makes a memorable impression so be sure you are always dressed to par.
Have A Strong Team Around You
Bond understands that he is not Superman and that he cannot do the job alone. He values his relationship with M and Q at MI6 very much so as they have helped him fight crime for decades. He understands that these guys are essential to what he does and that everything else he gets to enjoy comes after he has fulfilled his responsibilities to them.
A lot of your success depends on how well your team can set priorities and use their collective knowledge to solve problems.
Understand That Having A Plan B Is Important
Whether he is in a confrontation with a super villain or on a date with a beautiful lady, Bond always has a back up plan. Bond has developed the ability to not only plan ahead but also to be able to spot when a situation is not going to plan and make the right changes.
This is a very valuable skill to have as it means less time is wasted and you will deal with only a small amount of stress to prevent an alternative that may very well be too overwhelming to overcome.
Know How To Adapt To Everything That Is Going On
In an ever-changing world, he always finds a way to adapt to new situations with enthusiasm and verve, without being afraid of what might go wrong. This enthusiasm makes the world a less threatening place and enables him to face whatever challenge comes his way.
And like Martin Luther King said, “the ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.” Be like James Bond and be the master of whatever atmosphere you find yourself in. There is always a way to capitalize and assert your dominance available to you, you just have to find it.
James Bond has basically showed us what it takes to live a prideful, exciting and ultimately rewarding life. He has proved that the better man will always win and that being one step ahead means never giving up or letting your guard down.
James Bond is the elite of the elite and if you want to have a flawless strategy when it comes to being the modern alpha male, simply watch, observe and apply the tactics that made James Bond the legendary icon he is today.
